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Do Women Like Big… or Small?

When it comes to men, size does seem to matter… but perhaps not in the way you think. A cheeky look at confidence, personality and the male ego.

Big or Small?

The world loves to debate size, but ladies, let’s spill the tea: sometimes it is really all about confidence.

And before your mind wanders too far, we are talking about personality. Well… for the moment.


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Short and tall men illustrating the Big or Small blog
Big or small? Sometimes the most noticeable difference is confidence.

The Big Personality

Some women are drawn to “big” the bold, adventurous, larger than-life kind of personality. He walks into a room, owns the space and somehow makes people notice him.

That is the kind of size that can count. And he could be short or tall.

Short men with tall women
Height does not decide who has the biggest personality.

The Understated Personality

Others prefer “small”  the subtle, understated and mysterious type. Quietly clever, thoughtful and perhaps a little sneaky with his charm.

He might not make a scene, but when he smiles, it can be unforgettable. And again, he could be short or tall.

Short man with a tall woman
Attraction is about far more than a number on a measuring tape.

Personality and Confidence

So who wins? Perhaps it is simply the man who knows himself. No matter the size of his wardrobe, ego or dinner portions.

Confidence, humour and a touch of kindness can make even the smallest gestures feel enormous. Being comfortable in your own skin, being able to laugh at yourself and not taking life too seriously can be wonderfully attractive qualities.

The real secret may be balance: knowing when to be bold, when to be understated and when to throw in a little cheeky banter.

Petite woman with a tall man
Tall, short, big personality or quiet charm — attraction is personal.

So, Do Women Like Big or Small?

Next time someone asks, “Do women like big or small?” you could simply wink and reply, “Depends are we measuring confidence or equipment?”

You thought we were talking about men's appendages, didn't you? Well yes… that is another story.


Big or Small, We Make Jewellery to Fit

When it comes to jewellery, size really does matter  because the correct fit is important.

Hidden Delites makes men's intimate jewellery to the size ordered, giving you a choice of designs for different tastes, styles and sizes.

Hidden Delites custom-made solid silver body jewellery
Big or small, Hidden Delites makes custom-made jewellery to fit.

Questions & Answers

Is this article really about physical size?

Not quite. The title is deliberately cheeky. The article is mainly about confidence, personality, height and the way different people find different qualities attractive.

Does height determine confidence?

No. A man can be short or tall and still have a bold personality, quiet confidence or anything in between.

What qualities can make someone attractive?

Attraction is individual, but confidence, humour, kindness, self-awareness and being comfortable in your own skin can all be appealing qualities.

Why does size matter when ordering intimate jewellery?

Unlike the playful question in the rest of this article, jewellery sizing is practical. A correctly sized piece is important for fit and comfort, particularly with solid metal designs.


What Do You Think?

Big personality or quiet charm? Short or tall? What qualities do you find attractive? Your comments, feedback and ideas are always welcome.

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Hidden Delites has been making custom handmade nipple and body jewelry since 2001.